“My husband and I came from a small, historic church in downtown San Antonio where they lived their mission of helping others in the area,” Ruth shared. “When we moved to Green Valley, like many, we began church shopping, looking for a place to belong.”
“We came to Desert Hills Lutheran and felt we found our church. We attended a Saturday worship service and were uplifted. After my husband passed, I reached out to the church to help me. Later at a weekend worship service, I was asked to be an usher. When I shared I was not a member, they told me I didn’t have to be to help in worship services. That’s when I decided if I was acting like a church member by ushering, I should be a church member and not a bystander.”
“The community of Desert Hills Lutheran is fabulous. I never felt so much of a belonging. Even though it is a larger church, it is still intimate and friendly. I love the pastors and their messages. The pastors even know my name. How fabulous is that when over 1,000 people are attending each weekend.”
“During a daily meditation, I read, “He comforts you in your time of need to comfort others.” I was interested in being a Stephen Minister, so I took this as a sign, received information about the Stephen Ministry, and thought and prayed about becoming one.” Ruth explained that she wanted to give back to others and comfort them as God comforted her in her time of need. “I wish more of the congregation used Stephen Ministers. I think people hear ministry and think preaching, but that is not what we are. We listen and care. Through Stephen Ministry, I have learned a lot about and enjoyed meeting people. I feel I can speak with people who are not even involved in the ministry and help them.”
“One day in a Stephen Ministry meeting, Chaplain Mark said he was starting a grief support group. I shared, ‘Grief Share? I had gone through it twice. It was an amazing experience for me and so helpful in my healing.’ I volunteered to participate and still do. I am a strong believer in the group and how it affected me. I love the transition I witness from tears and emotions to laughing and forming friendships in the small groups. Leading groups still helps me get through my own healing process. The class and training support me as I reach out to various people in different ways. Grief is a journey, and it changes over time. I can share my journey and healing with friends, new and known, thanks to Grief Share and Desert Hills Lutheran Church.”
Sharing your compassion and kindness with others in need is God’s work in action. Ruth is just one of many at Desert Hills Lutheran Church who believe in making a difference in the lives of others.